Does life seem to be a struggle for you? Do you feel overwhelmed and frustrated much of the time? Do you wish you could experience something better? Fortunately, you can enjoy the exciting life you deserve.
Success is available to you despite challenging circumstances.
It's important to remember, also, that your self-worth is not defined by your circumstances.
What holds you back? Take some time today to question the beliefs you hold
that limit your potential. If you look at a challenging circumstance as a wall
that's impossible to climb, you need a fresh perspective. Within you is everything you need
to thrive and excel. The more you question the validity of your
limiting beliefs, the more success you'll experience in your life.
Think of a circumstance in your life that you believe
is preventing you from something you want. Write it down, then get ready to
challenge that limiting belief. If you do, you'll begin to move toward the
success you deserve.
Use these
strategies to maintain a positive self-worth, regardless of your circumstances:
1.
Find the
cause. What is the cause
of the circumstance in your life? Sometimes, limiting beliefs can serve as
warning signs that help you avoid danger. What can you learn from this so you
avoid triggering a similar situation in the future?
- If the
cause of your situation is unclear, ask friends and family for their
input. Others see your life from a different perspective, and their input
can be valuable in determining the root of your difficulty.
2.
Get past
the blame game. You can
often be your own worst critic. Fortunately, negative self-talk often has very
little basis in reality. Choose to replace the doubts of your inner
critic with more productive thinking.
- Once a
negative thought has taught you its intended lesson, it has served its
purpose. If you choose to hold onto those negative thoughts, they will
begin to form a negative self-image in your mind. This unbalanced view of
your talents and strengths holds you back.
- Instead of dwelling on negative thoughts about your circumstances,
learn the lesson and resolve to move on. Find out what you can do differently to avoid a
repeat of your present situation. Then, when negative thoughts enter your
mind, choose to replace your self-talk with productive thoughts instead.
3. Cut yourself some slack. Recognize that you're human. Everyone makes mistakes,
but your attitude determines your altitude in life. You are valuable regardless of your present predicament. You are worthwhile even when you slip up or
falter. Your circumstances simply provide feedback and an opportunity to learn
and grow.
4.
Make the most
of it. When you recognize
that you're valuable despite your circumstances, you'll begin to make the most
of every opportunity. Stumbling blocks you face can become
stepping stones to the success you deserve, simply by changing what you focus
on.
- Instead
of feeling helpless, ask yourself: "What's great about this?"
Every situation provides something of value if you look for it.
5.
Ask for help.
Loved ones and friends often
see strengths in you that go without notice. Ask them what they believe your
strengths are. This
is where your self-worth is found. Everyone has something
of value to contribute.
- Once you recognize your unique talents, gifts, and abilities, you'll
see life in a whole new way. You'll seek opportunities to use your talents to bless others.
You'll gain confidence that comes from conquering challenges that once
made you cringe.
- Instead
of allowing your circumstances to dictate who you are, you'll make the
rules!
6.
Live one
day at a time. Despite
your best efforts, some days simply provide one frustration after another. When
this happens, you have a choice. You can let your circumstances defeat you, or
you can choose a more positive perspective.
Resolve today to find your strengths, learn from your
difficult circumstances, and experience the joy you were created to experience.
Instead of tying your self-worth to your circumstances, choose to see things as
they really are. You were created with unique talents and gifts. When you find
those gifts within yourself and put them to use, you'll know how valuable you
truly are.
If you are challenged by having low self-confidence or anything else that prevents you from living an amazing life then go
to My
Calendar and book a call today. It's a free consultation and you
will walk away with at the minimum so new insight so book today!
If you've been following me on Facebook or
reading my blogs then you already know I'm passionate about helping people. If
you don't know who I am let me introduce myself. My name is Doreen Cunha
AKA Recovery Enthusiast. I
help women in recovery from addiction and other self-harm behaviors create a
life they don't want to numb from.
If you'd like to learn more go to www.recoveryenthusiast.com
As
always, stay blessed and live your life Enthusiastically!!
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